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Thanksiving, Kid Style

Our Thanksgivings have been a bit different the past few years. Our kids have gotten older and live out of state. This year, like last, we will be apart, and our celebration will be small and intimate...just me, the Hubs, his dad, and a friend. But I do have several tangible reminders of the kids. Each year, these creations come out with our small set of Thanksgiving decorations. They still bring a smile and memories of when our now-adult children were wide-eyed kids sitting around the dinner table, sharing their own unique perspective on the holiday. Two items that show this kids-eye view of Thanksgiving are a poem and a menu, created by our daughter Anne and son James, respectively. Anne wrote this poem about Thanksgiving when she was probably about 8-9 years old. It still cracks me up!   James, not to be outdone, decided to create menus for our Thanksgiving dinner one year. He must have been in about 2nd or 3rd grade, learning to spell big words! I always give kids a lot of...

CATHERINE RYAN


31 Days of Writing Family History Challenge

January 17, 2022:   Paternal Great, Great Grandmother #1  - Catherine Ryan Gilbride (Abt. 1855-1881)


by Nancy Gilbride Casey

This is the one that is nearest to my heart. If you have read my blog for any amount of time, or know me, you know that my quest for my second great grandmother Catherine Ryan has been an ongoing one—filled with mystery and discovered tragedy. Hers is the story that compels me to keep researching, to discover where she came from, and the reasons for her sad life.

I have written many times about Catherine: how I discovered what had become of her after she disappeared from her husband and son by 1880; about the trip I took with a cousin to Scranton, Pa., and with help of cemetery staff visited her unmarked gravesite. In another post, I imagined a conversation I might have with her if I could travel back in time and visit her at Danville Insane Asylum.

The stumbling blocks to revealing the rest of Catherine's story are a few:

  • As she died so young, she left few records behind with which to reconstruct her life.
  • Witnesses and sponsors named in records I do have appear more connected with her husband Michael than with her. For example, the witnesses to her marriage appear to be a friend of Micahel's and his fiance.
  • To date, no DNA evidence I have has revealed other matches through which I might discover Catherine's parents. All my matches so far identified within our Gilbride line connect back to Michael Gilbride, his parents or grandparents. I would need to identify DNA matches which connect one generation further back in the Ryan line...perhaps to siblings Catherine might have had which might lead to her parents. This strategy too is difficult: in many cases surnames will have changed by marriages over time, and I may not immediately recognize connections.  I am regrouping in my mind on next steps in that journey.

In the meantime, I offer these past blog posts which tell Catherine's story, and how I have gone about finding her.

What Would You Tell Me Catherine? (fictionalized conversation with Catherine)

Record Not Found Online (includes transcription of Catherine's patient record).

The Search for Catherine Ryan Gilbride (research methodology)

Out of Place  (research methodology)


NOTES

Image: Mary Cassatt, "Mother and Child," abt. 1906, Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York, NY; image, Wikimedia Commons (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Mother_and_Child_MET_246188.jpg : accessed 17 January 2020); used under CC0 1.0 Universal (CC0 1.0), Public Domain Dedication.


 

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