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June 4th—the day my sister Sharon died—always makes me pause.  My mind shifts back to the dark days of 1994. Then, when the veil between here and after was thin and my mind was continually occupied by thoughts of my sister - memories, regrets, wishes - I was on high alert, ever watchful for her presence.  Desperate for a sign that she was okay was a natural response to the traumatic way she died. I wanted reassurance. I found myself looking for women that looked like her in the grocery store or on the street, just to get a glimpse of her face one more time. For months, even years later, my heart would nearly leap out of my chest when I spied a young lady with long, dark, curly hair or a face that resembled hers. Of course, I was invariably disappointed when that person wasn't Sharon, and I couldn't pretend it was all somehow just a bad dream. But there were a few times, when our daughter was a baby and toddler, when it wasn't me but Anne who seemed especially attuned...

A Research Trip is Just the Ticket

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This week's post will be brief. I am busy preparing for a research trip later this week. 

My paternal grandmother's ancestors are my focus. Mary Josephine Baker (1911-1981) had Belgian, Irish, German, and Scottish roots with families that first settled in the Buffalo/Sheldon/St. Catharines, Ontario areas. I've spent a good part of the past two years researching their stories and am anxious to set my feet on the ground where they lived:

  • Buffalo, Erie, New York - Cassidy, Sheridan, and Coats families
  • N. Evans, Erie, New York - Sheridan family
  • Grantham/St. Catharines/Port Dalhousie, Ontario - Becker/Baker, Schiltz, Cassidy, Darragh, Dyer, Manley families
  • Sheldon, Wyoming, New York - Schiltz, Becker/Baker, Cailteux lines 

Each of these locales is within easy driving distance from Buffalo, so that will be my hub with day trips out to the various locations.

I've set an ambitious schedule and am gathering visit info, making arrangements with my contacts, scouring library websites for resources I might want to check, and making lists of questions I hope locals can answer. Libraries with local genealogy collections, local historical museums, ancestral churches, and cemeteries are all on the agenda.

More than anything I hope to get a feel for the places they called home—something that can only be accomplished in person.  

I'll send some "postcards" from my trip with news, finds, and photos in the next couple of weeks—and maybe a few tips on planning and executing a research trip that might be helpful to readers.

Until next time...

© Nancy Gilbride Casey, 2025. All rights reserved. 

 

 

 

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  1. Best of luck finding lots of great info with boots on the ground research!

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  2. The perfect genealogy activity for summer. Have a great trip! :)

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  3. Looking forward to seeing the postcards.

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  4. I know you'll have a great time. I just did this in Kentucky and Indiana. It's so wonderful to be in the place where they lived.

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    1. Getting started today. Stay tuned...thanks for reading.

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  5. Hello Nancy. I am jealous. Thank you for keeping us informed of your discoveries. If you could find a photo of our common ancestor Anne Marie Cailteux, that would be wonderful. Sorry I’m putting pressure on you. I'm as excited as you are. Thank you again. Daniel

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    1. Bonjour Daniel. I wish such a photo existed, but given that she passed away in the 1860s it's not very likely that one exists. I think the only chance that we find one is to ask other descendants. I know nothing came down through my family, sadly. Wish I could help on this one, but that's my best idea.

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    2. Bonjour Daniel. I wish such a photo existed, but given that she passed away in the 1860s it's not very likely that one exists. I think the only chance that we find one is to ask other descendants. I know nothing came down through my family, sadly. Wish I could help on this one, but that's my best idea.

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