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A Rose for Sharon

  For many years now, I have posted the single pink rose image to my social media on August 19th and June 4th. Those who know me well know it is in honor of my little sister, Sharon, who died in 1994. Her birth date and her death date. That has been the extent of my communication about my sister or her life since. Thirty-two years is a long time to hold onto words. I have considered writing about her. It doesn't matter how deep my feelings are for her or how much I cherish her memory, the words don't come easily, if at all. Words feel cheap and wrong. It's hard to even describe why. Maybe it is because she was our family's: Our sister, our cousin, our niece, our daughter. We knew her best, so no one else should have the right to know about her like we did. Maybe that's why I hold onto my words. But I realize that if I don't tell her story, who will?  I have spent hour upon hour researching my long-gone ancestors, yet I haven't written about my own sister. I ...
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Memorable Vacation

 

While I'm on vacation this week, I'm borrowing some writing I've done of my memories for our son. He gifted me with the book Questions You'll Wish You Asked: A Time Capsule for Mothers and Sons,* by Melissa Pennel, for Mother's Day a few years ago. It's filled with prompts to encourage the recipient to write about their own life experiences. I have been chipping away at the various topics little by little, and think of it as "future family history." Rather than write my responses in the book itself, I've begun a separate, private blog just for him, and I share the post links with him whenever I complete a new post. He also wants a printed version, so at some point I will copy them over into a Publisher document to print. 

Here's this week's prompt: Was there a vacation you took that stood out to you as a child? Why?


As a family, there is only one real vacation I can recall taking with all my siblings and both my parents. We didn't have a lot of money for any kind of big trips back then. Any outing we took usually was just a day trip here or there.

Our destination this time? Niagara Falls! I was probably about eight or nine years old, as I do recall my sister Sharon was with us, and I was 6 years older than her. 

I remember it was during the summer, but by the falls it was still cool. The falls were immense, especially to my child's eyes. Their sound and the spray all made an impression for sure. And it was really beautiful to see, of course. I also remember being pretty cautious by the guardrail overlook. I didn't want to fall over! I know someone has photos of us there, because I remember seeing them. 

We were able to see the Maid of the Mist tour boats which go right up to the falls. Everyone was outfitted with raincoats and rain hats, because everyone gets wet from the spray. We didn't do that excursion but it was fun to watch others do it.

In addition to seeing the falls we also went to two other attractions that also were memorable. One was the Madame Tussaud's Wax Museum, where they had lifelike wax figures of various historical people like kings, queens, celebrities, presidents, etc. I wish I remembered more about who exactly was represented, but it was over 50 years ago!

We also went to the Ripley's Believe it or Not Museum. That was cool! In particular I remember a life-size sculpture of an Asian man, and the story was that he sculpted it himself by looking in a mirror. It doesn't sound quite as impressive now as it did then! 

Postcard of the sculpture!

 

But wait, I just went online to look him up. It is ever cooler and weirder than I remembered! The sculpture is made of 20,000 pieces of wood, and the artist even used his own hair, nails, and teeth in it! He wanted to look as lifelike as possible as a remembrance for his girlfriend after he passed away. Yikes!

Here's a video on the piece: https://www.ripleys.com/weird-news/hananuma-masakichi-sculpture/

I know we only stayed in Niagara Falls for the day, driving to and from Cleveland the same day. It's only about a three hour drive give or take from where we lived. Though only a day, it was the closest thing we had to a "vacation" - we may have even crossed over to the Canadian side! 

 

Until next time... 

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